What If #1: What If I Was Never Here?

What would it be like if I was gone? Unexpectedly. What would you do? How would your life be different?

Let’s hear it.

Things That Happen When You Grow Up: Maturity

There are certain things I cannot deal with. One of the big things is immaturity.

There are time where everyone is acting silly, where the mood is light and a off-color comment is welcome and just makes everyone laugh. Times when someone is feeling down and saying something silly cheers them up.

Then there are times when something sill and/or dumb is said when it is totally random. When it doesn’t pertain to the situation. When it makes no sense and is only used to gain attention. When everyone looks at the person who said it like “what the heck are you saying/what does that have to do with this?”.

These people annoy me to no end. They do things that make no sense just so people will look at them. It makes them look idiotic. And for the most part not funny at all. I guess this is ok when you are 15 or 16. A lot of these people are 19-23. You have to grow up sometime. I guess these people think they can ignore those rules of maturity. Some think it’s “not following the crowd” or “being different”. But that is not the case here. You can be different without sounding dumb.

One of the requirements of being mature is not saying something that makes another or a lot of people feel uncomfortable for no reason at all. You can’t purposely make yourself look like an idiot just because you can. If you were to do that in the real world everyone would ignore you and think less of you. They would not think you are “being different”, they would think you are being stupid.

Maybe some people should look at how they act and try to improve those actions. They should weigh the situation and see if the comments/actions are welcome. If not, then they should stop. You don’t set a good example of how to be an adult, which is what you supposedly are, but you need to.

No one is perfect, but some people try more than others as well.