Double Dedication Day#2(Technically DOA#4): Justin Smith

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He goes by many names:  Smittums, Smittles, Smittlefield, Schmittay, Boris(or maybe it the other one), Smith and most popular, Smitty. but most importantly to me: he is My Brotha From Anotha Motha.

i met Smitty through a former(?) friend of mine Julie. they both worked at the college radio station and then began to date. she went to ThuRsdays and decided to bring him along. he didn’t come all the time at first but then his buddy Ryan started coming too so it gave him a better reason. well, his life has changed significantly since then. he is now a regular attender at both Thursdays and Northgate FMC and involved in the Tech Crew of both.

As seen in previous blogs(Happy & Thank You) this guy makes me laugh. he makes me laugh like no other! we have had many adventures together that have ended up in one of us on our knees or backs laughing hysterically until we tear up or lose our breath. we have inside jokes that some people will never understand nor do some of them want to. we laugh at each others pain(not in a really bad way). for example tonight while playing Apples To Apples i put down a card with Helen Keller on it. considering the category, it was just too wrong of an answer; but me and Smitty, on opposite sides of the table(with 11 people), looked at each other and proceeded to crack up and almost fall out of our chairs.

one thing that makes our relationship interesting is the fact that we are both weirdos. me being more so than he is. this cause me to hurt Smitty’s brain. he says it all the time. “You make my brain hurt! GAH!!!” but i think he puts up with me because for all my retarded behavior i make him laugh twice as much as i confound him.  i don’t think it’s ever come to a point where i have pissed him off. at least not on purpose. that’s why he’s so cool. he’s a really understanding guy. more than most people give him credit for. he puts up with a lot of crap sometimes.

I owe Smitty a lot. there’s been lots of times where there is a group of us hanging out and i forget that i don’t have a car, and he offers to take me home and it’s out of his way; and/or the weather might be crappy or it is really late at night and he has to work in the morning. he’s even paid for me to come to HIS birthday party and adventures! i seriously can’t think of more than 2 people ever in my entire life that would do that. that seriously blows me away. he has also bought me food plenty of times. now that’s a good friend. we all know i like to eat. and he doesn’t like me starving, because i’m a skinny boy and he’s…not. haha. and i think he feels bad for me. but anyhoo. yea, he’s really come through for me these past 2 years.

i have also gone on a few family get-togethers with him. visiting his cousins and grandparents and all the craziness that ensues because of it. i’ve actually met a few new friends because of said adventures. and had many an interesting moment as well. oh if you only knew(you really DON’T want to).

Seriously, Smitty is my brother. he’s very important to me and how my life has turned out. he has been there through some of the tough times in the past year, especially in the last 2-3 months. i don’t know if i could handle it all without him. i know the guy cares a lot about me and i never thought that would happen, because most guys are jerks and do things only to benefit themselves. HE IS A GOOD FRIEND. probably my best friend.

I love Smitty. He is my family. And he is cool as beans and makes my life joyous. He is my Best Man.(and no…i’m not getting married yet).

DJ SMITTY IS IN THE HOUSE YA’LL!!!!

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Things That Make You Go Hmm

Ok, so this is actually about things that make you happy. or make me happy. because i was told i need to write a happy blog. which in reality isn’t all that hard. i just don’t get a lot of reminders. so here we go.

Laughing makes me happy. “well larry, that’s an obvious statement.” i agree. i wonder if there are people out there who actually hate laughter, maybe Osama Bin Laden. maybe Scrooge, but he changed. maybe the guy who crapped his pants when he laughed really hard while watching the Jeff Dunham special and has bad memories of people harassing him because of his bad smell and has thus sworn off laughter entirely. i digress! i love laughing. i love people who make me laugh. i love being a dork, which makes me and others laugh. when you take pictures and you both make weird faces and it just doesn’t come out perfect and one of you looks like a monkey and the other like a scared wombat. when you tend to sing to someone but don’t really try and you sound like a complete doofus. or you try to sound as weird as possible just to make the other person smile.or tickling someone to make them laugh and then they gouge you with their extremely deadly fingernails. all these things make me laugh. oh theres more. when people repeatedly hit you with a towel or stress ball and then when you try to attack them with tongs and they almost fall over. or accordion farts in walmart. oh how my life would be incomplete and utterly sucky without laughter. and here is a few of those people that make me laugh:

Smitty, Jessica, Mallory J, Rand, Devon, myself.

Music makes me happy. there is not a day that goes by that i do not listen to music. it makes the day go faster, it makes the day more entertaining. it gets me through tough times. it makes for good background noise. it’s also funny(see above). it is fun to dance to, it is fun to sing along to. it is fun to make up motions to. it is also awesome to praise Jesus/God to. imagine if we had to praise God without music, i think it would be quite boring. music reminds me of good times, even if those good times are gone. it teaches us lessons. it inspires us. that is one of the many reasons it makes me happy. here are some of my fav music for making me happy:

Jimmy Eat World, Hillsong United, Reel Big Fish, Mates Of State, Richard Cheese, Five Iron Frenzy, Zolof The Rock & Roll Destroyer, and Death Cab For Cutie

Hugs make me happy! who doesn’t love a good hug. they just make things better. whether you lost a loved one/friend. or if you are having a bad day. or just because someone loves you/appreciates you/cares about you. they are just awesome. and i guess i’m gonna throw kisses in there too. because come. DUH! unless it’s from your least favorite uncle huey or aunt ruth, who happens to have a beard, or you don’t like the person. but besides that, kisses make people happy.

Sleep makes me happy. this is obvious. lack of sleep usually means crankiness and attitude. and when you get ENOUGH sleep, things are just wonderful. and when you sleep, you have a chance of dreaming. dreams are good.

A combo of these two previous things is snuggling, pretty much the BEST THING in the entire world.

and last but not least:

FOOD makes me happy!!! i love eating yummy, delicious food. it makes my mood better, it helps me do things, it makes a party better. beef, chicken, ice cream, and fruit. all good things to fill my belly. :)

Here’s some verses about happiness:

Psalm 68:3
But may the righteous be glad and rejoice before God; may they be happy and joyful.

Proverbs 15:13
A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit.

Ecclesiastes 3:12
I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live.

Ecclesiastes 7:14
When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, a man cannot discover anything about his future.

James 5:13
Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise.

I Thought I Had A Position…VENTING

i play bass guitar. i enjoy it.

i also play on the worship team at my church. or so i thought.

you know when you get really excited about doing something but then you never end up getting to do it? well that’s how i feel right now.

i went on a 2 week missions trip so i said i was unavailable. and i have been back for almost 3 weeks now and haven’t played at all. i don’t understand this. i’ve only actually played 2 times in the last….3 months. i don’t even feel part of the team.

playing worship music is a passion of mine. i LOOOOOOOOOOOOVE doing it. so why if you have a talented musician who loves playing and is available most of the time, would you not have them play?

i’m really bummed out. i just wanna stop going. because i just get pissed off all the time.

i would really hate that it’s because someone wants a “supergroup” worship team. i don’t think thats right.

i would hope that it’s not because i’m not good friends with the leader. that i’m not in the “in crowd”.

i would hope that it’s a giant mistake. a mental error. something that can be fixed and maybe an apology given.

i just don’t mean to sound selfish. i just want things to be fair. especially in this setting.

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